If you are a student or work full time, there is one thing that you know.
There is no time for anything these days.
It takes all you can do to make ends meet, let alone find a lover. The trend these days is to find a temporary lover. Someone you can spend some of your free time with, but not feel like you have to dedicate your whole life to.
This is becoming popular among professional women. They have needs, but not enough time to per sue a long term relationship. There can be many benefits of this kind of relationship. I already know what you are thinking, sex. Yes, the sex can be a great benefit. If both of you are comfortable with the idea of having sex.
I know what you are thinking, ‘Its all about the sex’. That really isn’t true. I mean yes, the sex is great with someone when there is no strings attached to it. Nothing is more satisfying than being able to please yourself and your partner without having to worry about her bitching about the trash that needs taken out afterwards.
Everyone needs a companion. We all need to feel attractive and feel that we are worth something to someone. I like to think of this as a unleaded relationship. You are there when there is a need, if the other person needs someone to talk to, and to full fill both of your sexual needs. It is like being in a relationship without all the nagging and other responsibilities that you have. There is no need to worry about her bills or putting food on her table, or her having to worry about doing your laundry or taking care of the house.
There are potential dangers of relationships like this though.
Sometimes people may begin to mistake sex for love. When it comes to oral sex she could suck a golf ball through a straw. After awhile you begin to feel comfortable with her and you come to expect the sex. Then after awhile you fall in love with how her ass looks like a heart when she bends over, and it is all down hill from there. This is true with women as well. They begin to feel comfortable in bed with a partner and then they mistake lust for love. They enjoy the pleasure that you are able to give them, and in their mind they think it is love. While the only thing you are thinking about after you have sex is how weird the sexual position was, they are thinking about a house and kids.
Often times these types of relationships turn into long term relationships. The sex is good, you don’t want to ruin a good thing right? Why would you turn a hot piece of ass down for a lonely time with you and your bottle of hand lotion on a Saturday night? These types of relationships are never good ones to per sue long term. They tend to end abruptly and cause a lot of pain. Every man knows what I am talking about.
One time I was involved with this hot piece of ass. The sex was great and he had a good time together. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. She fell in love with me. It was no longer just sex for her, but I was now her boyfriend. That was news to me! After I got sick of her, I dumped her. All I wanted was some sex and a friend, she wanted a new husband to take care of her while she sat on her ass all day doing nothing. There is too much tuna in the sea for that!
After it was all over she became a wreck and started stalking me. She told me how she loved me and how I really loved her but I was in denial. I wasn’t in denial, I loved what she had between her legs. There was nothing more to it than that. She spent years chasing me and making my life a living hell. It seemed that every other day she said she wanted to kill herself because she couldn’t live without me. She ruined my dating life. What woman wants to be with a man who has a crazy ex who calls him all day long and shows up at the house crying?
A temporary lover is a great thing if both of you understand it is exactly that. Both of you can get your needs met and enjoy each others’ company. I would be cautious with this sort of thing though. Because women tend to use sex as something to reel you in. They think if they put out, that you will fall in love with them and live happily ever after. In truth what happens is, they fall in love and hurt themselves. Then they make your life hell and try to ruin everything for you. If you are too busy for a real relationship, then this is the way to go. If you don’t have nerves of steel, then you might want to consider buying a pocket pussy from your local sex shop.